So I posted early last week as I am still extremely early in the divorce process. 2 weeks ago, my STBX wife asked for a divorce and then kicked me out of the house her family owned we just moved into to rent from her family. I scrambled, got a divorce attorney and filed for divorce last week (hopefull to get an annulment). I’m crashing at my parents for the time being to save up money until this is finalized (should be quick, no kids, no joint owned property, we already spilt the financial assets, which was just our joint accounts, I’m only contesting to not have to pay the lease exit fee of the apartment we vacated end of March).

My question is, even though I was blindsided by her asking, is it normal that 2 weeks out, I just feel mentally relieved? I’m not the emotional wreck I thought might happen. Any love I did have, completely gone. It just feels like I processed it fast and it’ll hit me out of the blue. I mentally shut down for a few days, but now I’m ready to just finalize the divorce and move forward.