My wife's job is being shuttered but she has the opportunity to transfer out of state. She wants to move somewhere I don't approve of and take our kids with her.

Our marriage has been dead—but "zombified" for the sake of our children—for years now. She has until April 13th to choose another location for work. This is going to turn into a huge battle that'll likely end our marriage once and for all. Neither of us are going to budge or compromise over this and we'll both fight dirty if need be.

Despite all the planning and bracing for this, it feels as though I'm at the crest of an unfinished, dilapidated rollercoaster. Soon, everything is going to rush forward and violently fall apart.

Thanks for letting me vent.