I’m meeting with a new lawyer tomorrow to hopefully workout a draft for my separation agreement. Outside of the normal items- any advice would be greatly appreciated. I’ve been pretty good at staying focused and keeping a clear rational view of what to expect, but the huge stress of the situation is making it hard at times. We have 3 young children, a business that requires both of our labor, and a huge amount of debt. I want to get out of the shared residence asap- we rent and arrange an agreement for 50/50 before approaching the business. We are agreeable to 50/50 at the moment. State requires one year separation prior to divorce.