I’m not sure if this is a rant or just annoyance. STBX and I are going through divorce. Staying legally separated for the like being just to try in mitigate costs. We have mostly everything written and submitted/ notarized and I make about 55% to her 45%. I pay cs as spousal support. Most of which she doesn’t really spend on our son. She has spent more on elective medical surgeries and just told me she’s having another one done. All the while stating she doesn’t have money for other things and fights me on paying her fair share for day care etc. all the while she is sharing my paychecks (as they needed to be submitted to courts etc for determining amounts) with friends her family and asking them how much she deserves out of me.

Is this legal (based in pa if that matters), I’ve continually asked her not to, and not that’s it’s that big of a deal, I just don’t like my private information shared.

Any insight is helpful.