Wife finally filed a few weeks ago and in a hour and a half we came to an agreement. No lawyers. House can't be sold (now would I want it to be) for the next 7 years. She got the primary custody of both kids and gets to stay in the house for that period - I didn't contest. I don't have to pay the morgage and will have half of the house if not more.

No alimony, negligible child support (40℅ of minimal for each child). I get the kids 3 days a week.

What surprised me how in a good mood I was and how she had a cloud over her head and sounded like she was at a funeral. She wanted the divorce. No tears, no final words, no nothing... she just left without even looking at me. 19 years, know her for 24.

Had this strange feeling where I was sad, but for her. She ruined her life, we had evertything and even after she got what she wanted she's looks unhappy.

Anyone experienced this feeling?