Little back story. My STBX has a history of slapping and head hitting. Verbal and emotionalabuse to me and my oldest. Only one episode of physical abuse to my oldest with really hard but slap. Recent DV on me 4 weeks ago.

We initially were going to divorce then made up. That lasted a week have stuck with it. During that time expressed multiple times staying at the current place and I be the one moving out, for the best.

Come to find out though had an apartment in the wings and started moving in. Now that would take 3 to 4 week's. During that time they lied to me feel hurt. Then almost paid, kind of did to get insurance back on track. Lied to me about being okay with them being on my insurance for the interim and planned to tell them after a month apart to find their own. Would be great if they came forward initially so I didn't lose about an extra $150. Also, makes me wonder was it an error on my part or did they cancel the insurance policy, now owe $100 (making my STBX pay the extra $50.)

I wonder if they plan to move out this week leave me cleaning up dealing with everything in the apartment. My STBX said they signed the paper to end the lease. The leasing agent said they rescinded it. They want us to both sign the paperwork. Going to go over tomorrow talk to them see if only me and then let my STBX know to sign. If doesn't wash my hands free.

I am waiting to hear back from my attorney. Thought they were reaching out to me today haven't heard from them as of yet. I am thinking of leaving 4 weeks earlier than expected. Just wash my hands of the apartment and my STBX.

I also can't totally wash my self of my STBX. They refuse to tell me where they are moving to. They are going to be moving .2 miles away from where I'll be living.

Should mention my STBX, due to funds, won't be paying the rent this week. Has been behind on all their other bills even though they make almost $1,000 more than me a month.

Has asked me if still want to go through the separation. As much has I am nervous for the future and the change. In the interest of my health and my children would be best I feel to continue with the separation. Don't even believe therapy would help.