Hello,

My ex and I separated and I haven't seen my daughter in over a month. 2 days ago she hit me with the "would you agree to supervise visits just until child is comfortable"

I told her no, emphatically. Along with sending her the guidelines of what it would take to prove that I needed supervised visits with my child.(I was a stay-at-home dad for 9 years raising my autistic oldest daughter) She said I was acting crazy and not to contact her again. This was the first time she ever said anything like that to me.

Her reasons are this:

-My erratic behavior after she took a break from me but in actuality went back to her ex. (She claimed that he groomed her from 16 to 18 but is now saying that they met in 2023 2 years ago whenever she was 18.) at one point I did say "get fucked asshole" whenever I discovered she was back with the groomer. That was about the worst of it and no threats other than protecting my rights with legal action.

-I raised my voice at her during an argument in front of our daughter. That happened and it was because I knew she was lying to me. (which she was she later admitted that evening)

-The condition of the house I live in and the mold that is in one room of the house that is currently getting renovated and will be fixed this week.

-after my divorce I went to prison for burglary second degree nonviolent and CDV third degree nonvi

My point is this, does she actually have a case and I'm being delusional? I have text messages from her describing how this guy took advantage of her repeatedly. Describing how scared she was to go to the police because of what he would do to her. Since she has my daughter over there this has me concerned so I brought it up to her.

Now she says it was somebody else and gave me a first name no last name. I'm wondering if she's covering up for her boyfriend or somebody else. Her current boyfriend is about to go away for 3 to 5 years anyways on a couple of gun charges and meth. He is 2 to 3 months sober so he says but I've heard otherwise. Has a record in three different counties a mile long dating all the way back to his 18th birthday.

Do I bring this up to the court do I print out literally everything and bring it all in including every time I asked her for visitation with my daughter and got literally nothing back. The only time she's ever texted me back was to tell me about the supervised visits and to defend her boyfriend, but never to talk about allowing me near my daughter. I have received two pictures from her and her mother.

I don't want to make the situation worse and they are literally trying their best to provoke a reaction out of me. Her boyfriend told me that I would never see my daughter again and that he's her daddy now whenever they came to get the rest of my ex's things from my house. She literally brought five people with her and had a police officer come. I was here by myself and wasn't going to cause any trouble ever because I don't do that LOL. Yesterday they posted pictures with him holding my daughter for the camera and saying that his two favorite people are with him. They even added one of those after sex pictures with both of them without their shirts on staring at the camera and you should just see this woman's face looking so proud of herself for what she's done.

I honestly think I'm dealing with a female narcissist but I don't like to jump to conclusions. She could be confused or taking bad advice from her mother or her boyfriend. She is young and he is 15 years older than her. I really just wonder if their relationship is in any way relevant to the safety of my daughter even if she admits to the court that she was lying about her boyfriend and it was somebody else. Wouldn't that just destroy her credibility? I know perjury is only when you lie to the court but is this anywhere close to being something like that?

Any suggestions tips or anything at all to help me through this would be appreciated. I've already been documenting every attempt via screenshots but I was going to print out the whole text history of her and I to show all the various times that I was good to her and the one time that I found out she was cheating on me and was not good to her.

I also wonder if she was using me for my DNA because we did not have sex after she got pregnant and we were together two years and had sex 16 times total mostly on her ovulation days.

Thank you for making it to the end and let me know what you guys think.