This group has been a great therapy for me going through my marriage breakdown.

It’s been a great outlet and connecting with people who get what I’m dealing with because they’re dealing with the same thing really helped me to cope with things.

STBXW and I are finalizing our separation agreement and will go to court as soon as we’re notarized to dissolve our marriage, likely within the next two weeks.

She moved out in June 2025, it’s been long enough that I’m looking forward to seeing the divorce finalized and have this behind me.

Thankfully no kids, few assets of worth and a mutual agreement to keep things civil and mature, which it’s been for the most part and we’re filing an uncontested divorce.

I just can’t help but feel numbness emotionally.

I feel forever changed. I’m not negative or pessimistic, I’ve been doing my best to keep a positive and optimistic outlook despite my circumstances and challenges.

No bitterness or anger, or sadness or depression, or emptiness. Just stoicism and unemotional energy. I have no tolerance for disturbances to my peace.

I just don’t feel anything, just moving forward, almost robotically. I still have a sense of humour so I do get a laugh in here or there at least.

I’ve been so focused on my work, and rebuilding my finances, I just feel like I’m working and taking eat, sleep, and shit breaks! Worth it though, I feel like momentum is starting to slowly grow.

I see a light at the end of the tunnel finally, so I long rant short, let’s keep pushing forward.

I appreciate you, Gentlemen.