Email my STBXW/WW/NARC sent me about one last revision to our settlement outline.

Hey maybe we can add on visitation that [me] and [her] have equal access to kids. In case things change you have it in writing to protect your time even if I'm doing schooling for them. We need to figure out a custody agreement for schooling time. The kids need you and I have the time to follow the schooling and therapy. This is mother state and I don't want you getting screwed over in those regards.

First of all, I've been the primary caregiver since Covid started. SHE went in strike, and then had an affair with our neighbor. SHE endangered our children's health multiple ways, from exposure to Covid to driving drunk to uprooting them from their forever home in the middle of the night to go play house with another man in a filthy pig stie of a home (so dirty with cat litter and cigarette smoke that the movers quit citing unsafe conditions).

They are emotionally traumatized from this. So much so that they beg to co-sleep with me, have both said they hate her lover, and literally cry in relief when I come home from working in the office now. "I missed you daddy! I'm so glad you're home." They're afraid I'll leave like she did.

I'VE done the vast majority of our oldest son's schooling for 2020-2021. I took them to daycare before Covid started, and I watched them at home after Covid WHILE working 40 hours +. Up until recently when my sister stepped up to help, NOT my wife; she ain't done shit. SHE has been lounging around, dragging her feet on securing stable housing, and pretty much spends her days smoking, drinking, and fucking at her lover's parent's house, and conning doctors out of medication.

If this went to open trial, she'd lose EVERYTHING. This is decidedly NOT a mother-who-cheats-and-endangers-her-children state. She would likely be given supervised visitation with mandatory drug and alcohol screening and routine forensic psychological exams.

That she's getting ANYTHING at all is due to my generosity and graciousness. She has ZERO legal standing.

Yet she has to get these digs in anyway. What a *****!