I hope this is the right place for this but if it isn't idk... Something I thought would never happen to me. Wife said she wants a divorce. We've been married since 2017. We've been dating since 2007. I joined the military in 2012 after we didn't work out but she cretly wanted me to stay. She will tell me this years later. In 2017 I had just moved overseas to California for about a year and married her right before we went underway to change homeport overseas with a promise to be discharged sometime soon after. That was the last time I saw her as that man. 10 years lead to 1 week of love. I was injured and after 5 years of her trying to help us recover to the way things used to be, I said "I'll never be the person you want me to be. That man is dead." I say the light in her eyes die in that moment. She told me she wants a divorce the next week. We've been together for so long I don't know who I am or what to do with myself. On top of it all the brain injury has made everyday confusing and frustrating. She wants me to move in with my parents because they are getting older and she doesn't want me to regret not being their for them. I know it's wrong but I can't help feeling like I don't want to waste another 10 years on another person who will leave me one day. I have 1 friend in California still. I know life is going to be so much harder there. I grew up in California and know that so many of us were just surviving there. Parents live in Arizona. I really don't want to live there. A selfish part of me wants to move overseas and gain citizenship if I can. Just put it all behind and start a new life. I don't know what to do but mostly my heart is hollow and broken and I find myself breaking down multiple times a day. We still live together until I find a new place. She has been sleeping in a different room for months. I should have saw this coming but I was blind. Honestly idk if I can take this. I just keep telling myself that quitting like that is the cowards way out and only thing I'll accomplish is hurting my parents. Sorry for the rant. I've just lost that light along with her.