Going to see a very aggressive attorney this week and am trying to get an idea of what to bring to make the most out of my time with him. I have bank records, audio recordings of her being physically abusive to me, threatening to take the kids, lie about my mental health to get alimony and the max child support, talking about buying drugs, and generally being mentally unstable. At first I was ok with 50/50 but the more she acts the way she does I am honestly not sure if she is mentally fit and not sure if I trust her with our kids. I do have an old phone that she use to use but haven't looked at it not knowing the legal ramifications . I just want to make sure this first visit is professional and productive and to keep the emotions out of it, just not sure what to bring up and to take with me. Any help would be greatly appreciated.