I’m at the point where I want to go see a marriage counselor, a third-party objective professional, to help us listen to one another and ask the right questions. Rather than talking in circles and feeling like I have to defend myself thus getting away from the objective of communicating.

Not sure how it got this way.

Anyway, would I be wasting my time suggesting a counselor?

Me: 32M Her: 31F Separated: 1 month (she needed “space”)