My wife and I had some alone time yesterday. I tried to get some answers to questions I had. She was reluctant to speak and then she let it all out. I was portrayed as a real villain. Everything I did in the past was twisted by her. I never did this or only did that. It was difficult to hear because it seemed that I was all to blame for her filing. She said that she thought long and hard about the decision. She came to the conclusion that I would never change. I felt I was doing nothing out the ordinary. She said that I should not have been surprised by the filing because the writing was on the wall and everyone expected it, even the kids. My teenaged daughter and adult son are not devastated at all. My daughter believes there consequences for my actions or lack thereof. It is sad that I was the clueless one. I’m still wounded today from everything I was accused of yesterday.