I can’t get my head around it. Been best friends with my wife for close to 30 years. I shared everything with her, good, bad, and the embarrassing. Now she filed for divorce and I don’t know her. There is no other man. I have heard the last 20+ years have been terrible for her, some my fault some not (according to me). Now she treats me like like a stranger off the street, closes her rope when she sees me. She is sleeping in another room and locks the door when she leaves, like she does not trust me. We are cordial but it feels fake. My world is turned upside down! Does she care if I live or die or if I’m feeling any pain. Divorce is a bitch and it just started for me.