I'm in a situation where my former Red Piller contacts me from burner numbers via text now that I gave a nice goodbye and a why we weren't a good fit. A month or so later he contacts me on my new number that he was not given, left a voicemail to 'hang out sometime'. I'm not entirely sure who gave him my new number, but I've resorted to just porting the old number to a cheap prepaid and got a brand new number just to get some peace.

They're all wrong numbers, but it's a suspiciously large amount of "wrong numbers" that are coming through now that I've been forced to just not reply now. Keep in mind, we found out and let it slide covertly that this person had hacked into my router, computer, and phone when he was at my house last. He clearly waited for me to go to bed because there was no other good opportunity to do it while we were hanging out. This massively terrified me because I have no idea what info he's taken (he hasn't been allowed over since of course).

I had apps that alerted me to when someone was trying to connect to a device and we found out that they were turning on the mic and listening in on our private conversations in our home. It took some time, but we started to make connections to people we knew online repeating things to me that was only said in my house on private calls or whatever.

The last straw with this person was when they were basically, in a more covert way, said that I would make a lot of money by providing the girlfriend experience to my friends. I knew what he was saying and it was just so bleh because he says these things and makes it obvious that he has no idea who I am. ME. Like I love sex like the next guy, but if you think that's not going to massively fuck up our friendship, you have another thing coming.

And he was obsessed with one of my exes to the point he would talk about him nearly monthly despite the fact that we had broken up years ago. I'm like thinking to myself 'why don't you date him, you seem to be in love with him'. It was all just so strange. Like why are we still talking about him? It looped and I later realized it wasn't me looping.

Then it was the sharing of my private info with strangers online. Which to me is instant cut off because I value my privacy staunchly. I try my hardest to make sure when I'm writing that I change the details of the people I talk about so they can't be easily connected. But he found me online and was able to figure out who people were because he's been in my life for years and knows who people are.

AND THEN HE REPORTED THINGS BACK TO THEM BEHIND MY BACK.

And they retaliated at me, so clearly something was shown to them that made them pretend I'm the worst person on the planet. One came and ran a smear campaign on me where I was helping out and doing some charity work. Straight up lies about nearly everything. Tells me people are using info against me, that I'm evil and an abuser, etc.

Like I'm losing my fucking mind here. None of this seems to be illegal because even with a protection order, which I can't get, doesn't stop him from going to talk to other people, my extended family included. He tried to make me think everyone in my family hated me, but I already know the only 2 people that hate me (because I have low tolerance for their histronic bullshit, manipulation, and pathological lying), which is 95% likely the 2 people he went to (we're estranged because they're abusers who justify abuse and I just can't be around that shit).

He was avidly Red Pill. Alpha this, submissive woman that, bitches are only out for your money, blah blah blah. But this behaviour just seems so opposite of Red Pill. Isn't he supposed to care less? He's very intense to the point where I was having panic attacks after he left our home the last several visits. I don't know why, but everything was just wrong. Now look at the mess.

What the fuck do I do? 😱