Help me understand - exredpill doesn't make sense to me

RedPillDetox · 2021-02-09T11:56:21+00:00

To answer your question, i am 28 years old. I joined PUA in 2010 and shortly after started consuming red pill dudes as well. I stayed in TRP till about 2013,2014ish. During those years, i approached over 1000 women, i even administered national forums and organized conventions with international speakers from the community.

Red pill has done nothing but completly fucked up my mental state to this day, the few women i dated back then all turned out to be crap because the advice tends to bring that kind of women, my social circle became preety much non-existant because of acting like an "alpha douchebag" and in essence fucked up my college years, including my 5 year LTR of the only girl that ever loved me and that was actually great.

So that answers your question. This sub is merely a mutual support group of people who did red pill and came out vastly damaged because of it. If you're here, either you want to detox or you don't. If you don't want to detox then this sub isn't for you. Also, try not to be provocative or having an accusative tone in your posts. This thread will be locked but refrain from commenting defending red pill or if you don't want to detox, because this sub isn't for you and you might get banned.

Shtafoo · 2021-02-09T10:51:47+00:00

The reason you're visiting sub must mean something. Are you getting succes and is your life full of meaningful relationships following RP advice? If yes, keep doing what you're doing and manipulating insecure people to feel better about yourself.

Look I get where you're coming from. Maybe you haven't been succesful with women, maybe you tried the whole pickup artistry thing and had some succes. But if your life revolves around picking up women and playing games, ofcourse they get bored of the games and you. That's not the women's fault, it's a sad way to live.

So ask yourself, are you having succes following all this? Or are you looking for ways to improve your (dating) life besides being a total nutjob, then you've come to the right place.

You can heal your red pill toxic beliefs with us, or you can go back to TRP it's your choice. Whatever you do there is no right or wrong way to go about life, your story just make it worthwhile and for the love of god not all women are like that.

Inareskai · 2021-02-09T11:46:30+00:00

This isn't 'debate' red pill.

It's for people who have gotten out who want to talk about their negative experiences and for people who have realised it is toxic and want help and support in the process of leaving. That doesn't seem to be you, so there's little that conversation would do to help you see eye to eye with people who are here.

It 'works' for you. Ok. I'd probably suggest that lots of what you've said indicates a fairly unhealthy healthy world view, but debating that isn't going to change anything if you feel happy as you are. There are others who have found that the red pill both didn't work and has did a lot of damage to them. That's why they leave.

It doesn't make sense to you because you do not feel that you have been harmed and/or cannot yet see the harm it has done. Fine. Come back when it makes sense and we'll be here to help.

Queen_Maxima · 2021-02-09T11:16:34+00:00

Im here to pay more attention to how red pill guys work. I have a lot of unstable guys attracted to me who display red pill techniques and it made me afraid of men. This way, I can learn to spot dread and other forms of manipulation more easily and get out quicker.

Red pill doesn't make your significant other happy, but afraid. That's not love.

DonChilliCheese · 2021-02-09T11:05:06+00:00

I don't think there are many women here, it's mostly people who talk about how they realized how stupid believing in Redpill was or who have friends who fell for it and discuss the negative effects on your social life. If you really think this sub is for women who are mad that some cool Redpill guys dumped them then that's a sign of how Redpill needs absurd justifications like this to be confirmed

JuStShAvEyOuRhEaDbRo · 2021-02-09T11:09:04+00:00

Rich Cooper and Rollo Tomassi got me here.

Title	Help me understand - exredpill doesn't make sense to me
Author	mandathor
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	February 9, 2021 10:38 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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