Hi all,
I wanted to write a post that's a bit different to what's normally being talked about around here. I want to share with you guys a story in the hopes of helping some of you realise how far a little bit of honesty gets you. Even if I can help just one of you, that'll already be more than enough for me. Anyway, here goes:
I found out that, when I'm able to express all emotions to other people - at least to my close friends and family - I'm connecting to other people and emotionally healing. Like, I once got scammed. 7 years ago when I moved to the big city to go to university, I really needed a room. I found this good looking room and the guy seemed allright. Did the deal and so on, transferred the deposit and got the key. However, when I went back to the house a few days later to check it out, I stumbled upon a note that was hung on the door by the local police department. Asking if I could come into their department to report a crime. I was devastated. But mostly? I felt very ashamed. How could I be so fucking gullible?
Long story short, a month ago I finally started opening up to my close friends about that experience. And lo and behold, they did not judge me at all! They were so supporting, and were encouraging me to be more open about that stuff next time. Sharing that experience, however shitty it might have been, has allowed me to become closer to my friends, and it has allowed them to become closer to me. I let them in.
Back to exredpill: same goes for relationship stuff. SHARE with your friends that you felt or still feel bitter. SHARE with them that you're scared of opening up to a girl, or scared of getting hurt. Of course you're exredpill so transitioning away from it. Also share that! Share with them that you feel ashamed of having been redpill, and that you feel disgusting for having felt such a victim. Share it all! Sharing is the only way to build a connection with the people around you, and building good connections is the only way to not go insane
Because that's what I strongly believe TRP is: it's men that have lost their ability to connect with other people like normal human beings. And never forget: the worst thing humans can do to each other is put them into complete isolation. Nietszche's decent into madness? He isolated himself from everyone around him. Don't be like Nietzsche. I feel at my best when I'm most open about everything I feel, and my environment gives that energy back a thousandfold.
To top it off: I found myself the best girl I could've ever dreamed of. It's all worth it guys, trust me and trust your emotions. Hope I got to at the very least make one of y'all's days a little bit better. Peace!
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