I don't get it

AIisVolatPropriis · 2021-06-13T12:54:22+00:00

Bullies are gonna bully. They've been here throughout history and they will continue to exist (especially when we often praise it on social media). All we can do is what's within our control and make sure we are being kind and not being that same sadistic chucklefuck that gets pleasure off the pain of others. With that also comes something else within our control and that's learning these tactics they use so that we can avoid them, learn to see them, and learn what to do.

Learning human behavior (especially the behaviors of those with dark mental illnesses) has been one of the best mental defense classes I've taken because it helped me see that even when others harass and blame you, it does not mean they're telling the truth and sometimes, they're even being malicious about it. The flip of responsibility you described above is a tactic called DARVO. Abusive people use this combined with gaslighting to displace their faults and responsibilities onto others so they don't have to take the blame. It's a clever trick, but once you learn how to see it, you see it for what it is, when you've had enough, and when to walk away.

Just because an abusive person has chosen to target you and take their misery out on you, it does not mean what you're doing is bad or wrong.

"The best revenge is not to be like your enemy." -Marcus Aurelius

Comfortable_Intern57 · 2021-06-13T13:19:55+00:00

Because you're not going with the pack mentality of toxic masculinity. So they feel they have to tear you down so get you in line and to be just like them. Enjoy your comics, there's nothing wrong with what you enjoy doing in your free time.

clutchwifi · 2021-06-13T12:33:16+00:00

Misery loves company.

Toomuch_noise · 2021-06-13T13:47:53+00:00

Honestly, I gave up on caring about what people think of me, I care about what my loved ones and friend think and that's it. I do try to be a good and nice person most of the time and I am so for 90% of the time. I know tgat some of my opinions are baseless so I try to have a critical view on my opinions and actions and not impose them on others, and I do criticise others opinions ruthlessly anytime it is given, all for the goal of having a better judgement and being a better person. Those who know me know that and dont mind it. Now if someone doesnt like something about me, its his opinion and I dont care, I have no interest in changing people's opinions. But if they are calling me names I'm calling them names back, If they insult me I'm punching back. I don't care if they like me or not as long as they are not someone I care about and as long as they know that they better behave.

Long story short, their opinions doesn't matter, care only about what you loved ones think about you and about being a good person. If you are disrespected impose respect or leave. If you like something, be critical of yoursrlf, do whatever you like and that's it.

As for the RedPillers, they worship the Khal Drogo/ Ultra macho man who knows no fun but only hard work and aggression. Treat them like you treat any insane person, don't mind them, they are living in a phantasy world.

kaleidoscopr · 2021-06-13T16:30:14+00:00

They want everyone to be the same. If you're not like their image of man, there's something wrong with you. You're the enemy.

eliterule12 · 2021-06-13T19:48:45+00:00

i have often noticed that red pill youtubers tend to treat business like its the only career you can have in your life, its almost as if they seem to be against living an average life. there is nothing wrong with enjoying comics and movies or whatever i love those mediums myself. some red pillers are only just into one lifestyle.

Taohumor · 2021-06-15T23:27:32+00:00

Because they were taught this is how you get respect from others because it is what routinely done to them and they are applauded for doing so. Think about that next time you wanna fire shots at someone who is different from yourself.

Title	I don't get it
Author	prjj2001
Upvotes	23
Comments	10
Date	June 13, 2021 12:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/nyushn/i_dont_get_it/
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