There was a post I saw on a friend's account and it was talking about a woman's submission to a masculine man and quite honestly it's the type of "masculine" man. It says:

Y'all wonder why my woman is so submissive?

Because I LEAD THE WAY AND SET THE TONE.

I book flights, fix things around the house, pay bills, make sure she has money in her purse even though she has her own.*

I get her stuff she likes, take her all around the globe! I don't cheat. I make her feel like she doesn't have a thing to worry about because she has me around. I listen to her, I apologize when I'm wrong and don't gaslight her.

THAT'S why she's submissive, take notes...and she is an ALPHA female, she isn't a gullible woman! I just do what I'm supposed to do as a man! 💯

This was intriguing to me because it seems like there are men who actually get it, but then I realize that Red Pill's version is sorta right too. One submits based on a real bond, safety, etc. While Red Pill's version (or some influencers of it) is done through trauma bonding, manipulation, forced dissonance, etc.

But both get similar results. One works for abuse survivors and younger, easily manipulated woman; the other likely to work on mentally healthier women. I noticed after detoxing from multiple Red Pill relationships, these relationships are so shitty that I went to therapy and finished multiple types to work through all my issues.

Afterward, it's like you can't unsee it and you've actually swallowed the real one? I dunno. Has anyone worked through this too? Am I not seeing things right, or? Curious if we can have discussion about this so I can unfuck my mind even better. Thanks! 😅