SMV going to end me

Ashe_Hemlock · 2024-09-22T06:53:30+00:00

30M and the older I get the more I prefer women closer to my age or older over the "ideal" 22-year-olds. I actually like a few little wrinkles on a pretty woman, they can be really cute when she smiles or laughs :D

SMV as a concept isn't complete bullshit, but so much more goes into attraction than looks, and even looks are highly subjective. In my experience, I'd even say the majority of men prefer women that are far from the "ideal" standard of a desirable young woman.

If you want to keep your looks, just eating well and working out really will put you at a massive advantage over a lot of the dating pool, especially as you age. Live your life, figure out what you want, don't eat garbage, and your man will come.

rosiet1001 · 2024-09-22T07:21:02+00:00

I'm 41F and I really wish I'd put less effort into thinking about this sort of thing when I was younger. The concept of SMV didn't exist back then but other things did mainly a pressure to be really thin, I spent so long worrying about it.

I found someone to marry who ended up cheating on me so we got divorced. That was nothing to do with my weight. I also did much better in my career than I ever could have expected which also had nothing to do with my weight.

The things you worry about are not the things that end up impacting you the most. Focus on gratitude, mindfulness and the pursuit of a calm and rewarding life. Love is the journey not the destination.

Prestigious-Jump6172 · 2024-09-22T08:11:25+00:00

Reading a lot about women's value in her youth and looks made me feel like disposable garbage with experation date.

You are aware redpill stuff is propaganda made with the purpose to create an online cult of angry disenfranchised men right? This is not a board to discuss redpill stuff

obviously doing it later is not good unfortunately, I can't be delusional and deny that, but it is really messing with my mind.

You might be a troll but in case you are just very confused:

-I have felt attracted to women in many age brackets (I´m a guy). As I age, so do my preferences

-Would you rather rush to get into a relationship with a guy that will only like you for your looks while you are in your twenties, or find love later in life?

VisceralSardonic · 2024-09-22T08:59:53+00:00

Your feelings are very valid and very common, but that doesn’t mean AT ALL that they’re based on facts. No one knows what they want out of the rest of their life in their twenties. No one. Things change, our priorities change, and we ourselves go through dozens of major transformations in our lives.

Don’t force something that you know is wrong for you because of pressure from people who don’t know you exist.

There’s absolutely no mandate to find a life partner in your twenties, and you’re not a loser if you don’t. There are millions of people in hastily chosen, poorly thought through, and devastatingly unhappy marriages in their twenties. There are millions more people in blissfully happy marriages that they didn’t get into until they were in their thirties, fifties, or even seventies.

I have yet to meet a person who both uses sexual market value to make a decision AND who will be a good long term partner to a woman who ages like a human. Don’t let them decide what’s real based on their own fears and fetishes.

Let yourself breathe and live. You’re the one who matters in your life decisions.

sleepypanda24_10 · 2024-09-22T11:33:48+00:00

I’m a F in my late thirties and have had no problem finding men interested in dating me seriously and men that would just hook up should that be what I wanted. Men (not boys) want a woman who is loving, supportive, independent, intelligent, and has a growth mindset. Working out and eating well has helped me for sure. There will always be a younger hotter girl, but many of those girls are looking for a transactional relationship. Growing up in a similar age bracket means you have sooo much in common. What I’m trying to say is, don’t sweat it. What you are feeling is very normal but you are the youngest you will ever be again right now- so live your best life!

StayCool-243 · 2024-09-22T12:32:24+00:00

SMV is ape logic invented by apes. Choose humanity and live your life however tf you want.

Title	SMV going to end me
Author	HuckleberryGlad2056
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	September 22, 2024 6:22 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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