What Does The Self Help Community Look Like For Women?

Yesm3can · 2021-11-15T07:12:48+00:00

Does it have this exact same toxic rabbit hole or perhaps a different side of it?

Just like so many things. It is often started with some good advice like in r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide/ . If you go into all time top posts, you'd see mostly practical advice. And since it is from women for women, the advice will not be seen as victim blaming, but preventative.

And then of course, stay long enough eventually you'd run into some posts that will send you into a more ehh...angry subreddits. And I can imagine for some women who have repeated bad experience with men and have little to no good guy friends on their own, those angrier subreddits could get very addicting.

Min_kast · 2021-11-15T18:01:47+00:00

The whole looksmaxxing/partner-maxxing community on Reddit is almost the exact same as the male version. These are places like splendida, diabla, Femaledatingstrategy to a large extent and such. Basically a neo-conservative ideology sprinkled in with some 60's radfem rhethoric. Almost all men hate you and are out to get you and you should hate almost all men. There are very few good ones that you should be in carefully calculated relationships with so you can get what you want. Obsessions with nose shape, a BMI under 20 and similar stuff. The conservatism is things like being anti-casual sex, anti-kink and believing men should pay for dates. They judge men to an extreme extent for even the smallest things.

There are different areas of female self-help - there's the whole "bossbabe" narrative and also the cutesy sparkly just be yourself inspirational quote and self care area. These may lead to slightly different conclusions than the neo-conservatism but often they lead to the same place.

lipstickdiet · 2021-11-15T03:23:43+00:00

NOT FOR BRIGADING PURPOSES

r/Vindicta

r/Diabla

r/Splendida

r/FemaleDatingStrategy

r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy

r/femcelmaxxing

There's more but they are deeper and won't be posting

Title	What Does The Self Help Community Look Like For Women?
Author	Peptocoptr
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	November 15, 2021 3:13 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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