from what ive learned its nothing and also everything.

women are not a monolith. they dont all think and act the same way. this also includes what they find attractive. you may see some women describe what they find desirable in a partner. you may see them describe 'kindness' 'intelligence' 'vulnerability'. well guess what? everything that woman just described could be repulsive to the next woman

dont listen to what women say when they tell you what is attractive, because your not listening to women, your listening to a woman. a woman youll likely never date or speak to or even see in real life, so who gives a twopenny fuck what she thinks?

so there is absolutely no reason to focus on what is attractive to women, because not every women finds the same thing attractive. people ask this question, but it is a question without an answer, and thats the most frustrating thing in the world, and it will be your demise