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November 5, 2019

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Title	👏🥵
Author	gangsterswife
Upvotes	434
Comments	16
Date	November 5, 2019 1:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/drz176/_/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/688855 https://theredarchive.com/post/688855

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[–][deleted] 66 points67 points68 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–]luvhley25FDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

One car crash guy I knew literally a matter of months said he might 'end it all' with a sad face cos I was telling him to get out my flat for being a boisterous asshole. When I said to him 'don't threaten me with that suicide shit' he started laughing his head off finding it funny, cos he knew I knew it was bullshit. And suddenly he blew his cover on his hints of a 'difficult childhood' being the reason for his self induced immaturity. Imagine what would have happened if I responded like a pick me with instant empathy? What a manipulative fuck wit....and he was always playing so dumb & helpless...not dumb enough to manipulate tho right? NEVER fall for their sob stories & emotional baiting.

Funny thing is tho looking at him on the outside you would think he's quite a catch and pretty normal, he was tall and handsome and polite at first, but he was easily one of the worst most retarded brain dead borderline sociopathic alcoholic immature needy car crashes I met of all time. Oh and he had ED issues at 32, just to top it off. He should of never made it to the gene pool, what a pathetic useless specimen of life. If only I could sue him for false advertising lmaooo.

This is why I have zero fucks for mens fee fees& their 'emotional problems' -they can go see a therapist- because most times they're just trying to manipulate you into tolerating them.

[+][deleted] 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I was so naive to get scared when a guy tried this suicide shit with me when I was in teenage. Thanks to lib fem an political correctness, I actually thought men were like us and have same emotional response. I now know they do this to either manipulate a higher-value woman to be with them or if their ego gets hurt. This guy threatened me so much and did all sort of emotional blackmail that I will ruin his life by being heartless and rejecting him, he can never love or marry a woman in his life. I actually felt so bad about myself for years. Now I see that liar has married another woman, albeit nowhere as pretty or as accomplished, as I am. Losers try their best to manipulate a high-value women to be with them, failing which they would happily settle for a lower-value women if they get to have their dick wet permanently, and if they fail to even get that, then they go on a violent rampage killing others or kill their own selves. Have learnt my lesson certainly. Will never let a man make me feel guilty again. Actually I don't even care what a man thinks of me anymore.

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't blame you cos in my teens I might of bought into that being more naive. But unluckily for them I have met wayyyy too many manipulators for me to give a damn by this point. They will pull the sulk face, I will give them the cold stare, and then they will laugh- cos they know I am not buying it. Also I find it quite sadistic men will use that as a manipulation tool given I've met genuinely suicidal people- so I'm stone cold when they pull it out last minute, I can tell when its fake. People don't realise how toxic it can be to give your empathy to everybody, because not everyone is cut from the same cloth as us. Only give it to people who have earned it, not the takers , the reciprocal- those are the ones you can trust. As a woman all I'll say is if a man starts leaking some emotional 'woe is me' topic quickly to you RUNNNNN and if he does this when you're going to dump him, or get him told about something disrespectful, definitely run. Men who really love you/respect themselves will not delve into that fast they will want to trust you first, manipulators however will mention it pretty fast, for a purpose. Most times its a test or they're looking for you to fix them/play mommy/do life for them. I've realised that men's no1 route for manipulating women is through their sympathy and emotions...he can use them to make you feel obligated/ guilty/ full of self doubt... if you let him. Glad you've seen through it those guys can turn VERY volatile & toxic & yes they usually seek out HVW because they seem like a higher authority to them & know there is more to reap.

[–]luvhley25FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh unless you have grown up with a skilled manipulator you have healed from then you're unlikely to have the experience/ability to see what they are doing (especially if you are under 21) because society grooms you to be passive, empathetic and attentive to men's feelings bC tHeY cAnT sPeAk Up....except they can in a private therapy room, most just don't want to.

Those type aren't looking to self improve just find an empathetic higher value woman to leech off, who will make up the difference for them. This is part of their 'tell women what they want to hear' strategy, they are messed up but tell you they WANT to change, all the while showing no actual real time evidence they are doing that. They can keep you there with lip service, false promises and emotional guilt tripping- and they always know what they are doing.

So note to females if a messed up man threatens suicide or tries to make you feel obliged to fix him, don't respond apart from directing them to a therapist/helpine then discard of them. Its not our job to fix grown men that refuse to mature.

[–]reddituser39682 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Winter_InevitableFDS STRATEGY COACH14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]chelseachainFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link