First time poster, long time reader. I came on here about 8 months ago. Just kept reading all of the advice given here and it was so uplifting. Background story: I was with my ex for 4 years, I am f25( since Reddit lets you see history! )Y’all can see some stuff I’ve posted on Reddit about the relationship. & I ended that relationship 5 days ago. I grabbed all my clothes and left him, left him the townhouse, the dogs, everything. I packed only my clothes and essentials and came home to momma!! & man does it feel good!!!I gave up so much of my myself as a woman over that relationship. I would find texting apps, stuff on social media, only fan purchases, and I stayed for 4 years!!! I was so crazy. And now I’m alone but not lonely and it feels so good. My own company feels so much better. I love myself so much, it’s a crazy feeling. Don’t put up with anything gals. No matter how much you think you love the guy. Love yourself first!!!!