Annoyingly relatable

madonna_whorecomplex · 2020-11-22T14:14:56+00:00

Lol, it's like that tiktok vid about how to get a man's attention and she said along the lines of when you focus on yourself and be happy, a man will give you his attention to destroy that.

2020-11-22T14:45:51+00:00

Every. Time.

We have been brainwashed to believe that dating is necessary and life fulfilling. That turned out to be the opposite of the truth.

Now I just live. I wasn’t even living before because I was so focused on relationships. Now I devote 100% of my time to living my best life. I chase my dreams, I seek thrills, I feed my curiosity, I laugh....

Dating and partnering up is a huge sacrifice of your limited time on Earth.

Do you want to spend it cleaning up after him? Asking him when he’s going to come home? Trying to get him to quit drinking? Hoping he will treat you better? Wishing he would help with the kids? Dreaming of having some free time to yourself but you’re too busy working, cooking, cleaning and raising a family?

See, the above is my nightmare. I was married, but had no children, and it was bad enough. I cannot imagine throwing my life away again, and I think some young ladies have children without really thinking about how much it will permanently change their life. The same goes for dating. Whether or not you do it will have a profound impact on your life, so consider it carefully.

ChoiceScarfMienfoo · 2020-11-22T13:24:02+00:00

don't you love it with LVM straight up tell you their intentions of getting into a rs just to control a woman?

typeadhd · 2020-11-22T14:01:31+00:00

Yeepp

Let me now destroy the very thing in you I said I liked — men, probably

mshourglasss · 2020-11-22T16:28:43+00:00

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2020-11-22T20:00:12+00:00

I relate to this so much. I've spent most of my life being very independent and what one of my friends calls "very high functioning". As in I hit all of my goals and I'm pretty much 100% successful at anything I put my mind to. I have a great job with the perfect schedule for me. I'm debt free and I saved 10k this year. I used to (pre covid) travel solo a lot and make friends wherever I went. And some LVM will always come crawling out of the gutter telling me I'm the most amazing human ever and then spend the next months or years trying to squash all of the things that make me so awesome.

Never again.

Title	Annoyingly relatable
Author	xoladybugxo
Upvotes	747
Comments	10
Date	November 22, 2020 8:31 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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