first time posting here, i've been watching a lot of tlc marriage shows and i am so bothered by the concept of bachelor parties. i hate how men and their friends say "haha it's ur last night as a single man!!" like?? no! you haven't been single this entire time? wtf? and the idea of strippers makes me sick and uncomfortable. it's why i don't want to marry. my boyfriend and i are both on the same page of bachelor parties being fucked up, but i know his friends and they would still get a stripper even if he said no, and i just HATE bachelor parties. i don't understand why women are okay with it. and bachelorette parties are a joke? ahahaha penis candies, because everyone loves looking at a penis!! male strippers, gag i don't want some random man bouncing his dick towards my face. i'm pretty sure if i found out my fiancé had strippers and a lap dance at his bachelor party i would just leave.