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[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Date local guys to keep your mind off a random dude thousands of miles away who is neglecting you. I promise you he is not special, because he doesn't think you are special.
[–]Winter_InevitableFDS STRATEGY COACH14 points15 points16 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't do a LDR of such magnitude, been there, done that, have the t-shirt, have the trauma and pain still from the fallout, plus still paying off my student loans from moving across the world to go to graduate school in another country
[–]mydeepestinnerworksFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I am in the same boat. Don’t do the same mistake we did.
[–]jalapenopancakesRuthless Strategist24 points25 points26 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Cut the cord and get with a man who makes you feel like a queen.
Date multiple men. Rotate them. They should be vying for your attention. You shouldn’t have to beg.
[–]CSQUITO1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
There is only one answer. Dump him, it’s not easy if you really do feel attached to him, but it’s not going to end if you’re still dating him