Hello! I am new here & would love some advice. I am 19 years old & have been in my first relationship for 1 & half years w my bf who is 20. I am absolutely in love with him however he has done something to hurt me & i want to know if i m overreacting or if this is jeopardizing our relationship. Him & i have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months because we go to different colleges. It has been painful & a rough patch. We constantly fight but when we’re together it’s like heaven. Here comes the hard part... I get back from college in May & we get to be together all summer! However the week I get back he has planned a week trip to new york with his 34 yo brother. i asked if i could go & he refused. I kept telling him how hurt i was that he didn’t want me to go after all or this long distance we endured & he doesn’t seem to see my side. He keeps saying things like “you’re not coming & thats final” or “i just want it to be me & my brother.” Am i wrong for feeling uncomfortable & hurt? Thank you sm for your time ladies.