I don’t message men first, I don’t initiate contact or conversations, and I believe men should chase. However, what is the FDS advice about putting the ball in his court by signalling that you are open to being asked on a date? This could be done by joking, or teasing, like saying “Well, if you want to get to know me, maybe you should ask me to dinner/on a date”

Is this a bad idea or is it still abiding by he handbook and just pointing clearly to the ball in his side of the court?

UPDATE:

Thank you!! This is clearly not FDS, so I’ll make sure I don’t do this ever!