I subbed here recently and have read a bit of your advice and it seems to boil down to being confident, knowing what I want, and not tolerating any bullshit.

I have a first date planned with a guy in about an hour. This is the first date I'll be going on since starting to read this sub. I don't have much time to read before then about what is suggested to ask on the first date.

Can anyone share some quick advice please?

I know that I should let him pay and don't even let sex become a topic.