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[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m guessing you’re really new to the subreddit. Everything u just wrote was full of red flags. The fact that you would continue interacting with a guy that wanted to pressure u into a relationship is so horrible. I think you have some confidence issues or no self worth. You need to work on yourself and level yourself up. What surprised me the most is that even after he threatened to kill himself (which is a big red flag because he’s being manipulative) you still decided to be his friend. You don’t know what you’re getting yourself into. Stop being a doormat and block his ass.
[–]MyhusbandsgoddessPickmeisha™️6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She also posted in r/dating_advice. She is not looking for FDS type advice, just advice in general, so she likely went for the first dating subreddits she could find without trying to understand the specifics.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s general advice though. Staying with someone for those reasons is something that anyone knows is wrong from the outside perspective.
[–]MyhusbandsgoddessPickmeisha™️0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just meant that she will more likely than not stay "very new" to this subreddit, because it looks like she is only looking for a quick fix to a specific relationship issue.
[–]Low_Dog230 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well not exactly a quick fix because I keep getting into the relationships somehow they always start off sweet, but then they change and I’m already attached and they had made it so I talk no one but them so I only have them. Also the only way I’ve been able to get out was to go with someone else because I’m scared what they might do when I leave them ether to me or themselves.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also be cautious with the other guy because if you told him what you want in someone he might mold himself into the dream guy you want but later he abusive.
[–]Yianna_FFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's nothing to be confused about! It's pretty clear that our boyfriend is LVM! The other guy is irrelevant at this stage and you shouldn't use him as your "way out" of your current relationship! You clearly need to work on yourself before getting into a relationship with anyone in the future!
There are SO many red flags everywhere 🚩🚩🚩 Make sure you read the FDS Handbook!
[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From one toxic relationship to another. Take a break from dating and work on loving yourself so much that you would never accept any of this type of behavior again. ❤️
[–]mydeepestinnerworksFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don’t mess with another chick’s relationship unless you don’t mind the high probability of them kicking your ass.
Well their not really dating she says they are but he says they’re just fuck buddies.
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