So I’m 21 and just found this life saving sub a few months ago and started to lurk. I started realizing how I was settling for a LVM. It was a polyamorous relationship but that wasn’t what I wanted. I spent all the money on traveling expenses because it was long distance. He never planned anything for us to do or listened to what I wanted. He was also 10 years older than me and I thought that would somehow make him more mature.

Anyways, we broke up. I’ve been feeling better and focusing more on me, my skin, on losing weight (down almost 20 lbs!) and reading more. But what else can I do to focus on myself and essentially date myself for a while?

I hope this is allowed, and thank you all in advance queens! 💕