This sub has helped me become emotionally detached and distant. I was dating someone for a few months. He had cancelled on me once and I told him if he did it again, it would be the end of it.

He did it again a month later. I probably should have blocked him at that point but old habits die hard. That said, I told him I was done and he was disrespectful. From there, he proceeded to gaslight me and say I was disrespectful for not understanding his life and he feels we should detach.

Old me would’ve fought to make it work. Instead, I said I respect your decision and walked away.

Shoutout to FDS!!!!