So I've been talking to this guy for weeks, and finally met him last night. Me and some friends asked if he would "host" our party, which he gladly did. He was a great host, despite admittedly hating strangers he treated my friends nice. I've never seen him "in action" before, and he's the calmest guy I've ever seen, despite dealing with 10 drunk strangers.

Later on, we went out on the town, he personally took care of my friend who got really drunk, and basically babysat him.

Finally, he dropped us off at the bus stop. He was the only guy (aside from the drunk guy), and this huge, drunk man got in our faces. This guy basically stood as a shield against a hostile drunk and risked missing his only bus home to protect me and my friends.

The vetting process WORKS!