some background: i currently have flu, i have an unusual name, & i have been using tinder, maybe not specifically to date at the moment because i’m ill i normally don’t stand for any shit...

so i’m talking to this guy. seems a bit odd, but that could just be the way he communicates on text. hard to explain, but a weird vibe radiates from him. it’s early days though (been messaging for two days) so haven’t thought too much of it.

he messaged last night asking about my name. i fell asleep before responding... i am sick & he knows this. i messaged back this morning saying i feel worse than i did before, he responded this evening just saying “why didn’t you respond to my message”. instantly i took a dislike to this, & i said i was asleep, he then said he wanted to know my background because i have an unusual name. i ignored that question again, & he asked AGAIN.

am i being paranoid/oversensitive or is this odd behaviour/a red flag?

i’ve made my mind up that the guy isn’t worth my time anyway - just want some validation in my thoughts.

***apologies for the poor format - i’m on mobile.