I was hanging out with a acquaintance and we were talking about our sexual pleasure. Mostly discussing about masturbation because it's amazing. But then we stumble on sex and she said " Imagine a guy asking if your okay during sex" she just had no hope for males. Broke my heart because my boyfriend does the bare minimum. During sex for every position he always ask if I feel good and even if I do a slight action that indicates unpleasured vibes, he will stop and ask if I am okay. He gives me full control of the pace of our movements and we can stop whenever and he'll never complain about it. He also puts my orgasm first. Those are just the good basics. But he goes beyond to bring towels, extra pillows, play peaceful music. He makes the environment feel safe and if I'm hungry he fetches food and water. I feel my partner has great quality because It has been consistent efforts with him for nearly 9 months. But we're just young teenangers ( both 16) so I still like to feel aware for the worst. But it Sadden me that majority of us are encountering some terrible males and have to confront their bullshit. Saddens me that young girls like my acquaintance can't envision a guy as a partner to be sweet and gentle like my boyfriend. I don't want to limit a guy as rude sex toy because I believe as individuals we are more than our biology anatomy. But it just feel sad that we can lack hope for better future around males. Don't understand why majority of males can't reach the basic standards :/