My sister, who I love, but is a pick me, said something to me the other day that seems to be subtle shade cloaked in concern. She said she was worried about how I'm going to take it when my dog dies because "she's literally my best friend" and "I have noone".
Yes, when that day comes (likely in a few years or so), I will be deeply saddened. Yes, I am introverted, and don't have a many friends in this city (more elsewhere) but that doesn't mean paint me as some "crazy dog lady". I would love my pup deeply even if I did have man in my life or more friends. I am very private about my love and dating life to my family. That doesn't mean I'm not seeing anyone or definitely that "I can't get anyone". Unlike her, my life doesn't revolve around getting a man.
My sister has children by more than one different man...neither of which she is currently with. She's also single..and does not have many friends either.. I have an education, passions, and no baby daddy drama. For context, I'm in my 30s and she is in her 40s.
I don't understand why loving animals is used an insult against women. I know this is moreso done with cats, but increasingly, dogs, too. Why having children by deadbeat men more socially acceptable to some people? I would rather pour my time and love into an animal than crappy men who bring you stress.
