Hi!! I love this reddit but it just made me realize I gotta cut this guy I’ve been seeing for 6 weeks loose.

He seeeemed high value, nice job, very good looking, nice car....but is so cheap and I realized he barely spent physical time with me because he was always taking his mom grocery shopping. Now when I bring up I got a day off next week (finally) he says he’s taking his parents on a trip. Like it made me pause, we were on ft. I just got that moment like ewwww he’s a...dun dun dunnn! mamas boy! We would be hanging out and he would go run to his mom right after.

But I also realized he’s emotionally manipulative, like unloads and overshares his mental issues TOO MUCH too soon with me, is overly secretive, it was hot at first how mysterious he is but now it’s really annoying and seems like he’s hiding a double life. It sucks. I had to tell him we can’t have sex anymore he had a hissy fit, ok, I asked “well what are we?” he said “I don’t know...but” me, “Exactly! now move!” I’m not competing with men’s mommies anymore, I’m not your therapist! I’m not even your girlfriend, you won’t take me on a date. But get jealous when other men breathe my way. Nope. I want better for myself another man will treat me better. I want an actual DATE I want gifts I don’t want to text you every single date but ZERO plans made!? I want real life connection. I’m bored. I’m done.