Decided to share a horrible story bc the audacity is next level.

I’m trying to meet a Muslim man from my background, and where I live is basically bone dry on brown men, but a big city nearby is overflowing. I go to said big city often to see family and a nice perk is meeting men. Anyway, I meet a guy and we get together over coffee (prior to learning about the pre-screen call). He doesn’t inspire anything within me, but the conversation was interesting. I leave early to run an errand before heading home.

We keep texting after for a week. He mentions he’s coming to my city the following weekend and asks if I’m free. I tell him I can’t meet bc I’m committed to other plans, but I ask why he’s visiting and where he’ll be in case my plans change. He tells me he matched with some woman in my city and he’s coming to see her, but would like to see me too if possible. But not to worry, he reassures me, he has barely talked to her and never met her.

I have never dealt with a man so brazen.