I discovered this thread after I starting seeing my bf 3 months ago but had read The Rules and other similar dating books. For new relationships, how do your continue in the same vein as FDS? Tips?

My bf is supportive, excellent in the bedroom, serves me, (made me a playlist for Xmas and got me a gift) pays for our dates and takes me out but..... lately I’ve been the only one initiating seeing one another. It’s getting in my nerves. So... I’m taking off tomorrow to visit family and I won’t be available to hangout or see him this weekend. New Years is around the corner and he hasn’t made plans with me or anything. It’s a new relationship and we’re both in our mid 30s but feel like he should make the plans.