The majority of men online push back against paying even on first dates and 50/50 pickmeishas defend those men, calling FDS minded ladies gold diggers. But make the men pay because as women we basically are housekeepers and child bearers!

According to this recent 2019 article [LINK: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/05/breadwinning-wives-gender-inequality/589237/

[People] “today are more likely than their counterparts 40 years ago to say they strongly believe that women should have the same opportunities as men to succeed in school and at work. But gender equality for women still lags in another realm: their own home.”

“Married American mothers spend almost twice as much time on housework and child care than do married fathers. Although American mothers—including those with young children—are far more likely to be working now than in past decades, they spend more time on child care today than did moms in the 1960s.”

Also in couples where the woman is the breadwinner, both man and woman are not likely to admit that the woman is the breadwinner. Maybe because it goes against the traditional still held belief that the man should be the breadwinner.

Even in couples where the woman is the breadwinner, she is not any less likely to do the bulk of household care. In fact, “the more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spend considerably more time on household chores than their spouses. In other words, women’s success in the workplace is penalized at home.”

And in general, men are still “keen on enforcing the notion that they should be the family’s earner in chief.” So I really don’t understand why online men pretend to hate it so much