i really think I might be tricking myself and wearing rose colored glasses and my boyfriend just sees me as a temporary thing. he just says we should "see what happens" and that even if we break up it doesn't mean the relationship was bad. And when I tell him that him mentioning us breaking up makes me sad he's like "but I can't promise you forever, you understand that, I've been clear about it from the beginning"

I get that, I can't promise forever either (cause shit happens and a promise is a promise) but... I'm just afraid I'm being played. But not exactly played because he doesn't have bad intent, just played because I'm sooo in love that I don't know what's what anymore. Maybe I'm ridiculously over invested.

He always says that we should live in the moment and I feel like a stupid boring traditional annoying person for basically wanting..more?

I will add that he's incredibly caring and invested in our relationship though.

How do I stop coming off as "needy" ?

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