Mysterious LVM

2340000 · 2020-11-15T02:51:28+00:00

A "mysterious" man is just a man a woman is seeking validation from. And a man who is emotionally unavailable.

I've met men who were reserved...but the "mysterious" ones have issues.

lightanddaffodil · 2020-11-15T03:32:00+00:00

this reminds me of one tumblr post I saw some time ago

"girl he’s not mysterious he just doesn’t know himself well enough to have a clear cut personality complete with nuances and strong values"

vmuzondi · 2020-11-15T04:28:17+00:00

I always say to remember how you feel and act when you’re not into someone. You suddenly understand “mixed signals” when you realize they just aren’t sure about you. He’s not intimidated or a commitmentphobe. So yes he’s extremely boring but too much of a coward to end things the hard way.

Less-Panic · 2020-11-15T05:52:48+00:00

OH YAH. One time I bumped into a dude that I had previously matched with on an app at a networking event (unplanned).

When I asked him "So where do you work?"He flat out *refused* to tell me. **At a professional networking event.** When I didn't play along with his "man of mystery" game, he eventually told me he worked for a state authority. My response, "Wow. You made it sound like you worked for the CIA or something" and bounced.

Title	Mysterious LVM
Author	NecessaryCook
Upvotes	99
Comments	6
Date	November 15, 2020 2:13 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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