Hey. I may not be accepted here but I’ve joined this subreddit months ago but I wasn’t bold enough to post anything because of the hate I’ll get but now those feelings flew away after reading the FDS handbook. It has helped me become a better woman and not feel terrible to want to be treated like one. I also felt terrible for having preferences since it was so looked down upon on women who even have the SLIGHTEST standard. But now I really don’t care what people say thanks to everyone who are respectful towards each other’s standards. This is the kind of sub that’s helped me be free and feel free (mentally speaking).