I agree with this, I may not blame people for the fetishises they have but how they decide to deal with it. I feel if you really wanted to deal with it, maybe see a therapist but not engage in communities that validate how you feel
Yesterday in an askreddit thread someone mentioned a subreddit called r/girlsindiapers and I checked it out, my heads been messed up since. How far people are willing to go accommodate these fetishes is sickening.