I haven’t been on this sub for very long but in a short amount of time it has vastly changed my interactions with men and online dating. I’ve deleted tinder seeing as there was only LVM on there and I no longer talk to men who say dumb things who only want to get a rise out of me.

This one guy I used to talk to (we never even met) only wanted a fuck buddy. He made that clear and at the time I was open to that. Our conversations were mostly around sex and sexting and he kept wanting me to send nudes (I told him no). He was into feet so I obliged him and sent a few feet and legs pics. After a little while I lost interest and I thought he got the hint. He stopped texting, undid the (unanswered by me) friend request on Facebook and deleted me off Snapchat (that he created for the sole reason of getting me to send him nudes on there).

A month and a half later he texts me out of nowhere asking me what’s up and sorry for disappearing on me. When I didn’t respond to that he said he felt pushed away by how I was acting before. Before FDS, I would have given this loser a piece of my mind. A multi-paragraph essay of all the reasons be sucks and why he isn’t worth my time. Now I know the power of not giving him the time of day and to simply ignore his ass. A more more poignant statement is saying nothing at all.

Lately I’ve been seeing a guy who has not steered a conversation to anything sexual or perverse with me because he sees me as a HVW. He hasn’t pressured me for anything physical, we text in a timely manner that respects each other’s time and he’s excited to see me when we go out on real dates. FDS really works and in 2020 I’m no longer wasting my time with any man who doesn’t see me for what I’m worth.