The handbook says that a man must treat you like a Queen from the start. What if a man knows your for years, but does not to pursue at first? Such as in the case that the man and the woman are old friends for example. Perhaps from childhood, primary or secondary school or university years. Or perhaps they are adults who work in the same field who have come to know each other over time. Does this mean that he has taken you for granted, that he should have tried to win your love earlier? What are your thoughts on the evolution of such relationships? Does this sort of friendship turn into romance fall outside of FDS ideology? Often, these are one sided situations where one friend falls for the other and doesn't reciprocate. But not alway, sometimes the feelings are mutual.