I’m a member here for a while and took the words and lessons of this reddit very to heart. While being daily here, I realised that there’s one aspect I avoided working on and that was my personal issues that leaded to many negative outcomes with people in my life.

To break it shortly, I think my insecurities and expectation of life turned me into a toxic person that (accidentally or not) doesn’t enrich people’s life as I should but instead make them insecure in return.

I started reading more blogs and looking for material but I have a hard time finding a book that actively helps to break those pattern down and being happier in life. Instead I see often advise on how to deal with people who have toxic behaviours.. which itself isn’t bad but I feel like I wouldn’t be able to use the knowledge properly on myself to improve.

Can you recommend me really good books? I would be very grateful for any help!