Regarding talking to multiple guys

Kitty015 · 2020-09-03T06:05:50+00:00

Why are you talking to a guy for 2 months without even meeting? Is that in the handbook?

But I agree it really hits hard when a guy you thought you were above ghosts you. But let that be a lesson not to even bother with guys who aren’t up to our standard.

cookiequepaso · 2020-09-03T19:02:45+00:00

Maybe I’m doing it wrong, but the way I’ve done it in the past was talking to a guy but also actively searching for others to add to the list. You’re not always going to have 3 guys at once but the point is to not let yourself get too invested in one guy so that way you’re constantly vetting.

level_up_always · 2020-09-03T20:57:51+00:00

it's something you're constantly doing - vetting, adding to your roster, cutting people loose etc. dating is a lifestyle.

exhalestardust · 2020-09-06T03:46:27+00:00

How many guys do you have on your roster at a single time? Right now I’m actively talking to ~30 guys on apps and texting. I do have favorites but it is mentally exhausting keeping up with so many. I feel obligated to reply if I have the least bit interest in someone so as not to ghost if they message me first.

Title	Regarding talking to multiple guys
Author	FeralFairie
Upvotes	18
Comments	5
Date	September 3, 2020 3:39 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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