Should I have said something more? Idk...honestly I didn’t know what to say more. If you were in this situation, would you have asked something more to keep the convo? Or wait for him to say something longer? I might be too sensitive if I think he is putting a low effort?

Moira_Spice · 2020-09-01T04:22:16+00:00

He's not responding quickly and isn't it bland a bit?

MsVandeau · 2020-09-01T04:22:42+00:00

Let him come up with something. Omg. I am bored so quickly. I barely got to the end of you’re own chat.

voodo2020 · 2020-09-01T04:06:04+00:00

Are you the green text or white?

strainedcrow · 2020-09-01T04:37:13+00:00

I view talking to someone online as part of making a good first impression. One word answers when we've just met online and are trying to have a flowing convo is a pass for me. This goes for when I'm trying to date or befriend women as well. It just kills the conversation and I'm not going to be the one to revive it when we JUST started talking. It's hardly better than not responding at all.

You did fine, don't take it personal like you did something wrong or could say something different to make it better. His one word answer does not even deserve a post about him tbh, just don't respond. Low effort behavior is low effort behavior so no need to make excuses for him. Talk to someone who doesn't have you questioning yourself & him after only a few messages

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